Please, do imagine this and give me your opinion about it. There’s a man who has promised and vowed that he’ll never have sex with another woman apart from his wife. Meanwhile, he has been kissing lips
and squeezing, smooching, and sucking the boobs of another lady. He says, “I haven’t broken my vows, after all, I haven’t had sex yet. While you’re still imagining it, let me give you a
clue into my main point here. There are many young guys and ladies who have vowed or promised God one way or another they’ll keep their virginity till marriage. They’re currently in relationship with someone they really love and would wish to marry God willing, they want to keep both their relationship and the vow. Unfortunately, they keep insisting on ‘no sex’ – just kissing, smooching, squeezing and sucking of boobs and just a few other things like that –
without the real thing (sex). (This is true with a lot of ladies who vowed to keep their virginity and still engage in a serious/intimate relationship). Girls believes that once the Hymen can be kept intact without penetration, guys assume that once they’ve not gotten to the point of ejaculating inside, they’re still maintaining their virginity.
The above may seem to be too direct for some people, but it’s the means/trick through which many ladies have lost their virginity and dignity
untimely for ever, many whom were once steadfast in the service of the Lord, but has now gone back. They fell and couldn’t stand tall again.
A lot of young people kept rising and falling in this state, they’re in love with someone who already know sex or who assured them of only kissing,
touching, and probably a little bit of squeezing – without sex; unfortunately, such things does not
exist. Some of such victims (both male & female) have resigned to saying “It’s not possible to avoid
premarital sex”, that’s the message they’re now preaching to teenagers who are going to also become victims… because they themselves has fallen. God is now looking for remnants, not multitudes! Beloved, purity is good and honorable, even in this dispensation, your body is only for God and your would-be spouse (don’t be generous with it); it’s not for your boyfriend or girlfriend. 1 Corinthians
6:19-20. Some will say, intimate relationship without sex is possible once you can control yourself. I have no problem with self-control, but let me ask the honest guys here one question; is it possible not to
have erection when kissing or squeezing your girlfriend’s boobs?
In fact, I know from experience that beyond having erection, your pant might also be wet, yet you say you’ve not had sex. (Make no mistakes, so it’s for females too).
Date ‘only’ if you have to, don’t when it’s not necessary. Ask me when is it necessary? Finally, sex – for me, is any intimate act that can happen between two or more people, ranging from
kissing, body romance, cunnilingus, fellatio, squeezing and touching of sensitive body parts, which may or may not lead to intercourse -for
sexual gratification. If you feel this speaks of you but you still have
some doubts, then you be the judge in the case of that husband who says he hasn’t broken his vow, because he has only been kissing and squeezing. Be sincere with yourself enough to admit your error, and be wise!
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