TALKING TO TEENS ABOUT SEX

Many of us didn’t grow up in a romantic family. Sincerely, I never saw my parents kiss or show any expression of love or affection, they never said “I love you” to each other, let alone to the children – at least none that I can remember. It’s somehow
sad. I guess that’s why I lunched out so early looking for affection. Parents who don’t do these definitely will not give their children sex education. In my teenage days, it was as if it’s forbidden to talk about sex. Teenagers from this type of homes are too quick to try things out. At puberty, they want to experiment what they’ve seen on TV (you’ll remember Ramsey Noah and Genevieve), what they’ve read from
romantic story books, what they heard from friends, and most unfortunately what they saw their parents do behind closed doors, which is still very common with people who live in one room apartment together with their children of age 5 and
above.

What’s the point of investing your time in a guy when he’ll just hurt you in the end? You’re not likely going to find that perfect love in secondary
school. It’s just gonna end up with tears and a broken heart. You don’t want to be that drama girl who wondered what love is really like, and out of curiosity she fell in love with a boy in their school. One day, she went to visit him at his friend’s place, when he asked for sex, she said; ‘no I am
not ready for sex’, but he took her virginity by force.
           Most women got disvirgined by boys who only need sex from innocent and vulnerable girls who are looking for love and affection. Note that at
adolescent, boys are hungry for sex (sexual gratification) because of their normal naturally high libido, while girls seek for love and care, which if they can’t get from their parents, boys will pretend to have it. Research said 61% of teens at 18 years old have had sex.
Brethren, most of the girls who becomes victims of rape at this stage remain heart broken, some of them becomes wayward, others will hardly love or trust any man again even their own husband at times, this is apart from it’s many spiritual implications. Remember the story of Dinah in Genesis 34:1-31.

This is not God’s plan for our female teenagers.
You can help somebody today by spreading/ sharing this message; who knows, it might help a teenager who’s planning to try out something romantic with her boyfriend soon, or a parent who needs to pay attention to his/her love life as it can affect their children forever. You’re either a parent,
sister, brother, uncle, aunt, friend, etc of someone in need of this message!
It’s better for them to see us kissing than arguing! Thanks for your time.
Your opinion please!
Fadunmo Abiodun

                             

 

YOUR FINANCES CAN GROW

And my God will liberally supply(fill to the full) your every need according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Phil 4:19(Amp version)

“GOD IS MORE EAGER TO MEET YOUR NEED THAN YOU ARE WILLING TO RECEIVE HIS PROVISION Luke 12:22; Matt 7:11”

Prior to this time, your financial status depended on Someone else’s Maybe your parents or some other benefactor. Now that you are grown, your Financial destiny depends totally on what you do and the decisions that you take. What many do not understand is that money is spiritual,Wealth is not a function of how much money you have stored up over time, It comes out from within a Man’s spirit and creates an atmosphere of uncommon favour,It encompasses wisdom in managing all of life’s affairs and this includes financial matters,Finances consist of ideas, innovations, strategies for making human life better,Finances also consist of property both realty and personal property, manpower, skills, connections, goodwill and least of all Paper currency,Money is essentially spiritual, It is the driving force behind many thriving business empires today, It is more than cash because cash cannot birth it. Rather, cash is a child of money,Job said”then you shall heap up GOLD as dust” Here, he referred to an ability which only THE ALMIGHTY Can Give, which Causes a ‘mere nobody’ to build financial empires within the twinkling of an eye,God then says to His Man: “Partner with ME in your finances, do not do it alone. Let ME Teach you how”,God Gave the Patriarch Abraham, Isaac his heir and Jacob a Faith culture in their Financial Lives,A Faith Culture is Cultivated through the acknowledgment that you need “more than human prowess to” break financial grounds,Abraham, Isaac and Jacob broke even through Faith Transactions,Wealth is more than having Financial wherewithal to accomplish earthly goals, It involves a Man’s Fulfillment and His entire well being FOR Past, Present and Future. Now, the reason why many trust in Money and sacrifice their lifetime to amass as much wealth as they can is that…It seems to be the answer to every need in this natural realm. But the lives of many a business Mogul has shown clearly that “money is limited”In addition, Money is not as durable as a unit of value as economists made many believe,The fluctuating prices in oil which has affected the Exchange rates in many economies go a long way to prove this,Consequently, Money is not the Principal thing as millions were made to believe from infancy,IT IS PURELY A MEANS FOR GOD’S AMBASSADORS in the Earth to Establish the Reign of CHRIST through the propagation of the Gospel,Zechariah 1:17,Only God’s Man can fulfil God’s purpose in the Earth, therefore God is very Passionate about enriching Him Greatly, Immensely, Immeasurably and Eternally i.e giving Him wealth that lasts forever,Wealth therefore is intangible and it consists of everything that a man would ever need, financially, academically, in relationships, Family, health, name it,God’s Plan therefore with regard to your finances INVOLVES aligning your financial lifestyle(culture) with the precepts of God’s Word,Bring God your Tithes, offerings, first fruits in FAITH and Take God at HIS WORD. He is too Faithful to fail Remember that your Words are a Living Force which can Create, uncreate and Recreate. Put words of Financial Prosperity & wholeness on your tongue always even when circumstances are unfavourable.   YOU ARE BORN FOR GREATNESS. SHALOM
Esiemoghie Anthonia