Guys usually assume that girls who allow frequent “testing” are cheap. While they earnestly pursue the ones who are discrete about sex. They might say they prefer the cheap one, it’s just because she’s cheap, (in most cases it’s just a cover-up lie), they’ll continue to admire the discrete one even after several futile efforts at
getting her. If he threatens to leave you? Its not because he didn’t respect your principles, he’s just trying to twist your hand maybe you’ll let go – and allow him have his way. Don’t make yourself a willful victim just because you don’t want to loose him, he’ll ask for it over and over again until you loose your worth in his eyes.
So, let him go if he insist, at least you’ll have your dignity intact! Note this if you’re in courtship relationship: any normal young guy in a romantic relationship will/ could ask for sex, it’s normal to some extent – because sex is a major part of his daily thinking… but he can control it if you can avoid tempting him, e.g, visiting him at home or in a private place alone. It’s your fault if you visit him alone, at least, now you know you shouldn’t!
Finally, note also that guys do talk about it, they’ll discuss you among their friends… even married men do, though with a little bit of respect when it’s their wife’s! If a guy can hold sex because of you, I.e, ‘cos you’re not ready, it means he’s very serious about you!
Fadunmo Abiodun
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